MONEY MAGIC 4
MUTUAL THRIVING

Ok, what does that look like practically?

• What the heck do I charge?
  

• How do I ask for more money?
  

• How do I make a budget that feels like permission to live not a fat-phobic diet?
  

• Do I hate my job, or do I just need 1 paid sick day/ month & some vacation?
  

• There’s work I love, but could I actually make money doing that?
  

• Real talk: intersectional equity, sliding scale, class, reparations for Indigenous & Black kin, disability justice, access & belonging
  

• Mutual aid: What’s my lane x capacity? Where is the mutual? How can give & receive more care?
  

Because we’re over…

•colonial, capitalist, extractive zombie apocalypse  

•urgency & hustle to meet material needs

•martyrdom & burn out are not prerequisites to liberation

•purity culture: it is not holier, pure, or socially just to be poor

•trauma binaries

This course is not

•get rich quick

•spiritual bypassing: just manifest abundance & oppression will not to hinder you/ others

•bro-crypto, invest in exploitive stock markets to grow money fast

•Individual, isolationist white nonsense

Testimonial

From a queer, femme, chronically ill and self-employed parent

Money feels so sticky and confusing and tied in to belonging and desire and shame.  Coming from my particular immigrant family, we didn't talk about money.

I feel allergic to many money teachers I see on the internet, as I have no interest in leaving my values at the door to learn about money.  

I trust Tiaré deeply, witnessing their work over the years shows me that:
• I too can be who I am.
• hold my values that include mutual thriving of my community and more-than-human life.
• I can care about a future for my child and clean water and care for the earth.
• also develop a relationship to money that is clear, grounded, and pleasurable.

Tiaré inspires me to come out of the chaos into clarity and agency and choice, for myself and also for my lineage.  I'm ready to be my own stable finance daddy.

This course is especially for you if…

• You were that kid making mud pies, inventing spells, whispering to frogs, and making magic fairy clubs in the woods

• You’re ready to join the stable daddy/ aunty club (& you still wanna be the baby sometimes)

• You want to receive more money and possibility without sacrificing your values, peace, or capacity

• You freeze when it comes to spending money on a second set of nice bedsheets, turning on/off your heat, having a reliable car w ac/ conditioner, or buying lunch when you’re too tired to cook

• You’re ready to take whimsy and unreasonable dreams seriously

• You wanna wake up excited to do work that feels good to your body, nourishes people, doesn’t rely on exploitation, and makes you enough money to dream, fuck around & find out, not just survive

• You want land back, collective coops, community creative & healing spaces, freedom from debt, health covered, to care for your Elders, invest in food as medicine

• You feel a lil guilty earning more money, having more free time

• You have more money/ stability than before but struggle to allow yourself more rest, nourishment, creative risk, and fulfillment

• You wanna shift survivors guilt into grief

• You feel weird talking to trusted ones about money, but want to share financial literacy, make plans together, give & receive care that involves $

• You want more time to doo-daddle, play an instrument badly, sleep in, do nothing

• You also once spent $1000 on a sex werk photo shoot, or some bent over backwards effort, & thought damn what if I could just be myself & get paid?

your decolonial guide
Tiaré Lani (they/them)

This offering is a home brew of 10 years of cultivating my creative business, embodiment practice, money magic, dancing with spirit, integration of Indigenous values, and lessons from water. 

I’m a Multi-spirit, Indigiqueer, brown, femme, chronically slow/ inflamed, recovering perfectionist, doo-daddler, aunty-daddy.

Our relationships with money are also our relationships with: wanting, receiving, giving, and creating. My slow-shifting relationship with money has allowed me more rest, play, healing, work within my capacity and aliveness, creative experimentation, deeper intimacy in my relationships, increasingly more stable housing, supporting BIPOC & trans fam with loans & care work, and providing financial care and safe stable housing to my Indigenous matriarch and Two Spirit youth kin. I’m about to buy a car with heat/ac that I can take into the bush! Saving for collective land back dreams.

We all have different intersections and expansion will look different in each of our paths. After surviving a lot of chaotic traumatic shit, I look back and say wow, I’ve built I life I couldn’t have imagined. I want to share practices, ways of being, and most importantly back up your inner knowing & longings - so that you can look back in 3 years, in a decade, and say wow, I couldn’t have imagined my life, my relationship with money could allow for this much possibility. 

So let’s grow our choices, deepen in dignity, safety, and belonging supported by money - together! Because we’re not meant to thrive individually in isolation.

Check out my substack
for storytelling on my money journey,
sex, relationships, embodiment, and magic.

Lineage/ roots

My great great granny Seymour told me to host this class. She was still chopping her own firewood at 112 so she knows what’s up.

Margaret “Granny Seymour” | Lheidli First Nation

My great great Granny Seymour was a medicine woman and midwife. She shared teachings on the sickness of greed, hoarding, and stagnation.

Captain Owen Forrester Browne | Kanaka Maoli Ancestors
Kanaka Maoli: native Hawaiian ancestors - approx 20-25 generations of my ancestors lived in an economic system where those who stewarded the land, harvested food, and fished the seas, fulfilled their responsibilities in only 6 days of labour per month and cultivated lives rich in art, science, ceremony, and kinship. 

Mama | Nani Belle Browne
My mama, raised me and my 2 siblings and I on love, generous attention, and together we survived state sanctioned abuse & poverty towards our creative expansion.

TEACHERS/ GUIDES

Maatsworld777 | Tumi Moloto

Tumi became a loving guide and friend offering support to integrate survival overextension and rest into my capacity to receive. To allow my playful, taboo desires to guide me. 

Radiant Somatics | Madison Abdullah

Creative unblocking and trauma resolution coaching to get unstuck, and move from chronic overwhelm into flow and natural radiance.

Fayza Bundalli x Nazbah Tom

Bodies of Medicine
Friends and teachers of decolonial somatics, rooting into my body wisdom of community healership, and moving from deep desire

FAQs

Attending live?
Recommended! So we can jam off each other’s energy. And all sessions will be recorded and sent out for your downloading and infinite viewing/ practice. 

Screen on?
I’d love to see your face. The my attnement to this group will deepen with your interactions. Come as you are, jammies, lounging, eating, doing errands , in the car! Participate camera off as you need.

What to expect?
1-1.5ish hour sessions. Everything is a choice/invitation: Grounding, Indigiqueer money lore, embodiment practice, spell work, group discussion, coaching & talkin’ story.

PRICE

$333-444 - redistributing capacity

$222 - my baseline

2 for $333 - sign up with a friend! 

$111 - Reclaiming ancestral life ways for Black, Indigenous, and people of the global majority. OR get in choose an amount that would allow you to meet your basic needs without struggle while making a commitment and investment in our energy exchange.

Questions?

I’d love to hear from you.
Email: tiarejung@gmail.com
subjet line: Mutual thriving